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January 30, 2009 |
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We collect FOUND stuff: love letters, birthday cards, kids' homework,
to-do lists, ticket stubs, poetry on napkins, telephone bills, doodles -
anything that gives a glimpse into someone
else's life. Anything goes...
No more bringing up things or people that make each other uncomfortable.
Like necrophilia, STDs and cannibalism
Both of today's finds make me remember an old boyfriend... and his name *isn't* Paul. Creepy.
This is an "I'll come home if" list ...
Why does this person may G's and S's the same?
alot
acrosst
supposably
and now a new one -
eachother
Looks like a list for the both of them to follow; at least they are trying to make the relationship better. It seems like there should be more to it though...
And why would children make anyone uncomfortable? If the idea of having children with someone makes you uncomfortable, that's a sure sign it's time to get out!
The idea of having children at all sounds uncomfortable... lol.
Perhaps it makes her uncomfortable when he talks about his children by many other women... it makes her think things like "Gee, this guy is a loser" and "Why am I with such a loser", which threaten her fairy tale bubble of what Love is supposed to be.
If this relationship consists of trash talking, cussing eachother out, yelling, and basically trying to make eachother uncomfortable, doesn't really sould like something that needs to be fixed. It needs to be dismantled! I wonder why they went to a hotel to resolve their issues. She's the mistress, perhaps? And doesn't want to hear about his wife and kids because it makes her uncomfortable?
I am going to copy this down and bring it home tonight. Nothing else has worked, maybe this note will
@ melsy
Ha yeah I know he feeling all to well!
I was thinking this was a list of behaviors the second grade kids were going to have to maintain ... until I got to that last one.
But, without trash talking, belittling, name calling, yelling, cussing, and making each other uncomfortable -- well what's left to build a relationship on?
-no more pencils
-no more books
-no more teachers' dirty looooooks.
...and no more silly lists.
If they already do all that when they fight, one may be able to stop doing it, but I highly doubt that both will stop. It's not meant to be, just move on.
@HPD
its cool too see because i thought i was the only one who makes some "g" and "s" the same. i have no idea how i started doing it. it usually happens writing something very quickly like in cursive or shorthand.
I wonder if this is a note from a daughter for her mother...
I would have titled this find:
"4 reason's I don't miss relationships"
i always thought trash talking was something you did to members of the other team on a football field. how would that sound in a relationship? unless they really are talking about trash...
@Cotton - Really? I would have gone with "If I go home he'll be beating the shit out of me again in a week"
Just add "no more comments about spelling" and you've go thte rules for the found message boards...
More consideration.
More appreciation.
More civil communication.
More trying to understand the other's POV.
More sex.
This looks like a list of rules for arguing made in a couples' counseling session. They are helpful if you stick to them.
God, why would you be IN a relationship with someone where this is the way you treat each other? Life is hard enough... and short enough...why waste it on misery like this???
(*who knows? maybe the sex is really, really GOOD.)
This is the reason I love being single! Great handwriting font! :)