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May 15, 2009 |
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I Was Good to Her
FOUND by Andrew
in Columbus, IN
I found this piece of paper in the street while waiting for my dog to poop in the neighbor's yard on 19th and California St.
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We collect FOUND stuff: love letters, birthday cards, kids' homework,
to-do lists, ticket stubs, poetry on napkins, telephone bills, doodles -
anything that gives a glimpse into someone
else's life. Anything goes...
This is heartbreaking. I remember being in relationships that were falling apart that I prayed for too. Funny how after I finally realized that didn't work, I found a relationship that did.
Big A, I hope you find someone that appreciates you being good to her!
I usually get on people for poor grammar and spelling I can't on this one..just honest raw emotion..beautiful and so sad..I just wanna give him a hug.
...while waiting for your dog to poop in the neighbors yard??? Nice going, Andrew.
Obviously Columbus IN doesn't have the "pick-up laws" we do. Here it doesn't matter where your dog does his duty, you pick it up and dispose of it. And if a dogless citizen finds their yard collecting offensive deposits, a watch may be posted, and the offenders (human) fined.
Now for the Find. Yes, it is very sad. To invest so many years in a relationship and have it sour. I wonder what precipitated this. I have watched it happen in a relationship where the economic situation deprived a person of a life-long, well-paid job and their spouse of many years upped and offed the minute it looked like things might be tight for a long time. Nice.
Big A, I wish you all the best. Don't worry about her cheating on you...just move on. I'm sure with your large, warm heart there will be other chances out there, even at age 60 or whatever you are now.
Frankly, I don't think this guy sounds very nice at all. Something is really creepy here. He sounds possessive. Ick.
Spend less time bothering god and pay some attention to the people in your life.
ittle did he know that, even as he was writing, she was busy looking over her shoulder and saying something like, "
some of gods greatest gifts are unanswered prayers. you'll find someone :)
Sometimes the answer is "yes". Sometimes the answer is "no". And sometimes the answer is "wait a while".
'Pat B', I don't know you personally but if you weren't always calling her 'Big Ass' she might still be there. Maybe a different pet name like 'GGMAB'(Go get me a Beer) instead would have brought tears to her eyes!
She's not a cheet-ah...
...she's a cougar.
Wonder if he was seeking the prays of a particular person named Christian, or Christians in general?
Perhaps instead of praying to the invisible fairy in the sky he could have been using that time to talk to his wife and find out why she was so unhappy that she left after so long.
Why is the general assumption that only Christians pray?
Sorry, dude about your wife.
Andrew in Columbus, IN, way to go.
Boodie, that invisible fairy in the sky has more respect for him than that cheating whore. He wants them to break up!! lol
I think the note is written to person named "Christian" and "Big A" seems think a prayer with Pat B not cheetin' on'im.
You know Big A if you had spent more time at home rather than on that steel horse you ride, you wouldn't have given love a bad name so stop livin' on a prayer and go get your
runaway and make her feel more wanted...dead or alive.
She can't really "cheet" on him if she's already left him... then it's not cheating anymore. Move on, guy!
I
me
my my me
we
us
I her
I her
I have to wonder how many of those 33 years she spent dreaming, imagining, fantasizing about finally leaving and being FREE to be herself again.
Hopefully Big A didn't fall apart when she left, and become a homeless, sign-flying bum.
This guy sounds creepy. I bet he's one of those men who thinks he's perfect and anything wrong in the relationship is the woman's fault. Now that she left he's still blaming her, and thinks the only reason she could ever leave someone as good as him is because she was cheating, when in reality she just wanted to get away from his obsessive/possessive ways.
Hey guy, your the one on the good side. If she's gone, she did it on her own and lost a wonderful thing. Anyone with feelings like yours is way better than her. You'll come out OK later on.
Sometimes it IS completely the other person's fault.
Now I have "Ruby Don't Take Your Love to Town" playing in my head. Your right, Librarian, sometimes it is.
Big A was always leaving his shity diapers in inappropriate places. It drove Pat B crazy until she couldn't hold it in anymore. She wrote a note and left in the middle of the night. Big A was upset when he found the note and became a substitute drama teacher because Christian's prayers weren't bringing her back.
She left because you're over 30 and can't spell.
TOGETHER = TO GET HER
TOGEATHER = TO GEAT HER
I'm with Blaze. creepy
Dear Big A.,
Your process seems good as far as it goes.... However, prayer & meditation should come *first*, then perhaps - communicate with the non-closer/possible cheeter. If you need help establishing communication, find a good counselor to teach you two some talking rules.
(But asking God [or others] to get you closer; not take some steps yourself, is kind of creepy.)
Not here to make fun of this poor schmuck's abhorrent spelling and grammar. Mrs. Cuckold probably ain't exactly Ivy League material, either, if I had to guess.
But does it seem to anyone else that by calling marital infidelity "cheeting," Mr. Cuckold is himself cheating?
Should have prayed to God to help him with his present,past,future tenses.
Yeah.
Like I care.
All I can picture is a little old man who is originally from another country who obviously is in love with his wife, and scared. You guys are assholes.
i agree with taylor owned in your face. that is exactly what i see. a poor old man who is probably an immigrant who loves his wife and doesn't understand why she is leaving him after 33 years and who is calling upon all forces of nature (God) to help him get through this hard time. have a heart.
So sad! :o(