October 02, 2005

I'm Willing to Learn
FOUND by Nina in Redhead, Australia
I found this note at a local school.
Heather in USA
Local HIGH school, I hope.
+ December 06, 2006 11:10 PM +
Xode in Las Vegas, USA
Now that is my kinda girl. Toss in an accent, woohooo.
+ December 12, 2006 02:30 PM +
christine in plymouth,ma
What a pathetic girl...ho;pe she found a new guy andsome self esteem
+ December 17, 2006 06:54 PM +
Crys
Wow, that is so sad. It's one thing to forgive but to throw yourself at someone is just...wow.
+ December 27, 2006 05:46 PM +
Dave in Colorado Springs Colorado
Redhead? Awesome! If the population bears resemblence to the name I'm moving there!
+ December 29, 2006 05:55 PM +
Nikki in Seattle
This breaks my heart! How sad! I hope nothing came of these two, because they are destined for turmoil and heartbreak.
+ January 04, 2007 06:06 PM +
Sam in TN
10$ says Nina ended up with some STD.
+ January 07, 2007 09:12 PM +
James in the GREAT state of TEXAS
must be a blonde!!
+ January 18, 2007 09:45 AM +
Nina in Vermont
Signed by a Nina, AND found by a Nina? What are the odds? There aren't that many of us.
+ January 19, 2007 10:17 PM +
tahlia in Australia
thats retarded.
i hope ninas okay.
cheaters can all die.
he obviously didnt love you enough to sleep with soemone else. dont put yourself down.
+ January 30, 2007 05:59 AM +
Nina in miami
Was the note really found by a Nina or did the finder just adopt the name from the note?
hmm...
+ January 30, 2007 06:22 PM +
TB in Virginia
What is she expecting to learn?

I mean its not like she is saying that whatever the other girl can do she will do better...no she is just willing to learn!

Hope the other girl wasnt into weird shit for Nina's sake!
+ January 31, 2007 02:01 PM +
KC in over there
i guess thats love
+ February 02, 2007 12:23 PM +
Pwag in Land of Silk and Money
Atta girl.
+ February 03, 2007 08:44 AM +
CM in south of Pwag
Pwag... tell your wife you need to be slugged --again--
+ February 04, 2007 05:14 AM +
Kimberly in Havelock, NC
wow thats so pathetic! i bet she would get STD's! that girl needs some self esteem
+ February 05, 2007 11:00 PM +
JessicaPC in South Carolina
How sad. She's desperate and just degrading herself.
+ February 06, 2007 05:56 PM +
Tom in Publications
I thought it was hot. But now it isn't.

I'm a <i> bit </i> sad
+ February 09, 2007 10:56 AM +
Josh in Ann Arbor, Michigan
We shouldn't be so quick to judge Nina and Jake. Clearly Jake made a mistake. Is it possible that he realized this and begged Nina for forgiveness, but she made him sweat it out before forgiving him? I think that Nina just recognizes that there was a reason Jake made a mistake, and we shouldn't be so quick to say that Nina is letting him walk all over her.
+ February 10, 2007 10:38 PM +
=)
Has Josh perhaps made a similar mistake?
+ February 12, 2007 02:27 PM +
bartron 2000 in springfield
jake, enjoy the sodomy. bartron 2000
+ February 20, 2007 12:42 PM +
EQ
What's funny is I know a girl named Nina, who signs her name in a very similar fashion.

+ February 24, 2007 09:16 PM +
riss in ny.
Dump him.
+ February 25, 2007 09:28 AM +
John in Clarksville, TN
I find it sad how some girls have the impression that they have to give a guy whatever he wants, or else he'll leave her and find someone else who'll give it to him.

In all fairness, though, it is equally sad that some guys expect girls to.
+ February 26, 2007 03:21 AM +
sara in portland
What I find the saddest is that her handwriting leads me to think that is was perhaps not found at a high school, but a grammar school or jr. high. Get 'em started young.
shudder.
+ March 01, 2007 04:47 PM +
jake in nina's underpants
Dear Nina,
But I think I'm in love with her and she's so sexually mature... besides I'll still see you all the time since its your mom.
seriously, Jake
+ March 05, 2007 09:03 PM +
L in the chair
Funny how the girls thought it was sad,and the guys thought it was hot.Yeah Nina,learn it and get the hell away from Jake, 'cause he'll do it again.
+ March 29, 2007 09:43 PM +
Frank L. in San Antonio
Young love. She mentions "love" 4 times in a few sentences, and equates the concept solely with being as skilled sexually as "her". Wow, and to think Jake must have planted this insecurity in her mind, a little seed of doubt, that led her to this desperate note. Girls, don't be so tough on her, and guys, try and imagine your daughter leaving this kind of message to her boyfriend.
+ April 06, 2007 04:56 PM +
Red in an ass-kicking state of mind
Jake is a jerk. Nina can do better. He should be begging HER to take HIM back. This note is just so degrading.

Move on, sweetheart. Jake isn't everything.

(I am SO NOT OKAY with cheating. There is no excuse, it is not okay and there are no second chances.)
+ April 20, 2007 11:48 AM +
Matt in my cubicle
Grow some self esteem, Nina.
+ April 25, 2007 09:38 AM +
paulin in Sacramento, California
now that is just sooo stupid..."what ever she can do i'm willing to learn"...be who u are not who he slept with dummy.
+ May 15, 2007 05:51 PM +
Kiki in Cali
I actually enjoy pondering the question of who will teach Nina. The other woman? Jake and the other woman together? Hmmmm. I think I'll excuse myself...
+ May 17, 2007 01:45 PM +
Amanda in mn
To forgive a man for something like that is to say that you are worthless.....I learned that the hard way...more than once....
+ May 17, 2007 11:18 PM +
cutie in around
I've forgiven my jake, and he knows he doesn't deserve me. I hope nina's can realize the same...
+ May 21, 2007 02:14 PM +
Cara in Perth, Australlia
This poor desperate girl... i can relate to how she feels. I would love to have known what his response may have been to this letter...
+ May 22, 2007 12:21 AM +
nacho friend in az
Hard to teach a young dog old tricks :-P
+ May 24, 2007 10:31 PM +
Genna in Seattle, WA
Note to self: don't trust Austrailian boys.
+ May 30, 2007 03:10 PM +
Jordan in Australia
I actually feel sorry for Jake here... there's too many "loves" in the note. This means she is LYING and doesn't love him, she hates him. She is luring him back into the house with the promise of newly learned moves... then she will pounce, by slapping him and yelling him.
Probably having invited his mother over to witness the confrontation, also.

I would.
+ June 10, 2007 02:43 AM +
Denver in Olympia WA.
I think who ever wrote that is lame. Beacouse she forgave him for what he did.
+ June 10, 2007 04:24 PM +
Austin in Statesboro, GA
Am I the only one that noticed that the note is from a girl named Nina and was submitted by a girl named Nina? Are they the same person or was it just a coincidence?
+ June 19, 2007 01:30 AM +
Mona Lisa hanging in the louvre
no, you're not, Austin. Read earlier posts, before posting one yourself.
+ June 19, 2007 01:39 PM +
bowie in aus
that is love.
+ June 20, 2007 05:38 AM +
Nina
we Ninas are fickle and wired to please
+ June 29, 2007 01:48 PM +
Katie
i think this is the saddest thing i have ever read.
+ July 11, 2007 12:04 AM +
Alais in Aotearoa
It's not love, its desperation.
+ July 20, 2007 02:34 AM +
deanna in maryland
sad.
+ July 31, 2007 09:14 PM +
Jenn in Michigan
Nina shouldn't put up with Jake.It's sad that she's so sacrificing.
+ August 09, 2007 02:07 PM +
Nina in Montana
Funny, found myself as a teenage girl again. This letter was even posted on my birthday. Perhaps we are all looking to be loved and accepted, at 15 and at 30.
+ August 09, 2007 02:32 PM +
Brandon W in Ottawa, Canada
these kids are messed up.
+ August 18, 2007 09:59 AM +
Rocky
This can relate to all of us.

It's like how when one hates someone else, but still be hopeful with love toward that person with false ideas and promises.

You all can't just assume that he cheated on her. What if Jake slept with someone else BEFORE they even met, and she was saving herself for that special someone, and also expecting him to be a virgin too. They may have broken up because of that?
+ September 26, 2007 02:01 PM +
Tori in South Cackalackie
Ugh! I don't usually like to post negative comments, but this one hits a raw nerve of mine. It reminds me of some of my friends and I tell them the same thing I'd say to this girl.
Your self esteem and self worth should never be contingent upon whether or not you are in a relationship. You don't always have to have a boyfriend, nor do you need to put up with this kind of crap. UGH! That doesn't mean you have to be a shrewish bitch, but you should stand up for yourself. Grow a pair (of boobies in this case)will ya!?
+ October 09, 2007 01:39 PM +
Jonathan in love with Nina -- no, that one -- no, that one
" Nina said:
we Ninas are fickle and wired to please "

Love it.
That line will haunt my dreams.
+ October 22, 2007 06:59 PM +
kate in kelowna, bc, canada
Jake's such an ass
+ October 28, 2007 10:28 PM +
tika in charlotte nc
us girls are so stupid.. she should have left him...
+ November 10, 2007 05:49 PM +
Lindsey in Vermont
To the Nina in Vermont who says there aren't that many Ninas. I'm also in Vermont...don't know where you're hanging out but there are SO MANY people named Nina in VT!
+ November 11, 2007 05:16 PM +
peaches in whitefish montana
Dear Jack,

I don't think you hurt me as bad as you could have. I have placed my vagina on the pavement and am waiting for a swift kick from you. Please make it hard. I want to bleed. Thank you,
a woman with no self esteem or respect,
nina
+ November 18, 2007 02:47 PM +
lauren in australia
what an asshole.
nina grow some balls stand up for yourself
+ November 19, 2007 08:19 PM +
SadForHer in LaLaLand
Sad, Sad Nina. Oh what we are willing to do for "love" in highschool. I really hope she grew some balls and figured out she's worth so much more.
+ November 28, 2007 06:49 PM +
I wish I hadn't experienced this, too, in high school
I've been that girl and I could not be more hurt when I saw this. Nina, don't do this to yourself. You deserve so much more. He's a jerk, get him out of your life and find somebody who wants you, not somebody who wants you to be like another girl. It was hard for me, but I got out of it. I wish I could see where Nina is now...
+ December 11, 2007 06:06 PM +
Peanut in peanutville, Mexico
i think nina's awesome. i like her willingness to learn.
+ December 13, 2007 10:08 PM +
Boy in Edmonton, Alberta
Mmmm give Nina a break. Give Jake a break. People make mistakes sometimes. Some people can't forgive them, and some people understand we're all only human.
+ December 17, 2007 06:10 PM +
michelle in la la land
this is kind of hearbreaking,
to see someone so afraid to be alone,
that she does this.
+ January 06, 2008 03:33 AM +
Gin in Tonic
"Dear Jack,

I don't think you hurt me as bad as you could have. I have placed my vagina on the pavement and am waiting for a swift kick from you. Please make it hard. I want to bleed. Thank you,
a woman with no self esteem or respect,
nina"

PRICELESS. Except the one thing you might have missed is that she's definitely not a woman yet, and that's probably why she has such low self-esteem and may not have even figured out what self-respect is yet.

Very sad note... it made me cry, both for the girl that is getting hurt and for the way she is setting herself up to get hurt again... and not just right then and there, but in the future.
+ January 31, 2008 10:43 AM +
Lauren in Neverland
i think that nina needs to figure out that any guy that cheats on her doesn't deserve her...i hope that she found someone worth her time. And i hope that in the future she won't let herself come second to another girl in any relationship.
+ February 16, 2008 10:21 PM +
Kira
Nina is a dolt, like many of you. Next time, Jake, just lie to her; that is what she wants anyway. Tell her you learned that new move from a movie, not the slut you slept with last week, idiot.
+ February 19, 2008 01:47 PM +
Van Gogo in memory lane walking on broken glass
I remember being this pathetic in my teens into my early twenties. Then you grow up and learn, hopefully, that anyone who uses excuses for why they crap on you is really not someone you want in your life.
+ March 21, 2008 03:30 PM +
Jenni in Norwalk, CT
This makes me sad for our generation.
+ May 02, 2008 08:21 PM +
Jason in Tampa
Dear Nina,

I love you too. I love your willingness to make this relationship as strong and healthy as it can possibly be. The thing is, I need you to learn what she does, then do it at the same time she is doing it. That way we can be together. Loving.

I love you baby.

love Jake

+ May 28, 2008 01:00 PM +
Alyea(uh-lee-uh) in Phila.
LMAO
+ June 19, 2008 07:00 PM +
Micah in Washington
NO NINA!!! I seriously hope that this is a lure to get him to her house so she can kick his junk.
+ July 15, 2008 03:52 PM +
Lost in thought
This made me cry
+ August 21, 2008 01:16 PM +
Breen in New York
Nina is a dumb, sad, pathetic excuse for a woman.

I hope Im not being to harsh....
+ September 27, 2008 11:13 PM +
Anneka in Brookfield, Canada
Poor girl.. you got it all wrong. He's an idiot, your a sweet-heart.
+ October 23, 2008 04:34 PM +
goodkarma521 in illinois
wow....sad...sucks that she was even put in that situation...
+ November 15, 2008 01:36 PM +
M in the Netherlands
My heart cries out for all the girls who are so sad an foolish to think and feel that only some guy can make their life worth living...

Don't get me wrong, if it's a good guy, hold on to him, but never -NEVER- never say you would do anything some *$^& would do to him. By the way, if he's looking somewhere else for it, he's really not a good guy!
+ November 27, 2008 05:13 PM +
HamatoKameko in Hershey, PA
Aw, that is just so sad.
+ February 11, 2009 04:06 PM +
Stephanie P in Miami, Florida
Nina! What a shame ):
+ March 02, 2009 08:23 PM +
Clever Scree Name Here in Corvallis,OR
On the plus side, maybe she lost the note before delivering it and grew some self respect.
+ June 19, 2009 02:06 PM +
Rach Out and Touch in Hartford, CT
I dont think that Nina wrote the note. The handwriting is very masculine. Women's writing is usually more bubbly even if it is slanted and sloppy. I think Jake's friend "Bob" did. Bob thinks Nina is a ditz and that Jake should just risk cheating on her with that hot foreign girl whos been flirting with him. Bob writes this note as a joke to convince him that it doesn't really matter- Nina won't care.

+ July 01, 2009 12:42 PM +
imo in phillipines
Now that is true selfless love...if only it was with the right respectful guy what a waste.
+ July 10, 2009 07:33 AM +
Librarian in the woodwork

Nina, Nina, Nina ... Look at what he done. To you. To that other girl. To himself.

Get over him, because he's way over you.
+ November 04, 2009 08:04 PM +

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