December 30, 2006

I'm Sorry That I Got Fat
FOUND by Marie-France in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada
I found this crumpled up on a table in my French class.
mary in bethesda
i wonder why she apologized twice for being fat?
+ December 30, 2006 12:20 AM +
Blah
Wow, that is really really sad.
+ December 30, 2006 12:43 AM +
fool in austin, tx
wesley willis fan, mayhaps?

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+ December 30, 2006 12:51 AM +
Mary in Texas
Egh. This reminds me of some of the sort of guilt-tripping notes a friend in elementary school used to write to her friends and family.
+ December 30, 2006 12:57 AM +
Mandy in South-Eastern United States
There's no such thing as fat. Only beautiful, and more that is beautiful. :)
+ December 30, 2006 02:35 AM +
spy in Kanata, ON, Canada
why would a kid be apologizing for that? The mom must be cruel.
+ December 30, 2006 07:23 AM +
Lou in Canada
I know exactly how they feel.
+ December 30, 2006 08:04 AM +
Patti in Winnipeg, Canada
My heart breaks for the child who has to apologize to their Mom for who they are, the Mom who made them in the first place. What grade level was the school?
+ December 30, 2006 08:49 AM +
Alex in Canada
Thats increadibly sad.
+ December 30, 2006 09:51 AM +
theProcrastinatrix in Minnesota, USA
That is just heart wrenching. :(
+ December 30, 2006 10:37 AM +
Adam in Olympia, WA
I sometimes feel the need to make the same apology.
+ December 30, 2006 10:46 AM +
E in England
thats the saddest thing ever.
+ December 30, 2006 11:06 AM +
JoAnn in Toronto, Ontario, Canada
this makes me sad. I can relate. I wish that family health, mental and otherwise for New Years.
+ December 30, 2006 01:53 PM +
Jo in Virginia
I'm sorry that I got fat.
But...
You're just as fat!

+ December 30, 2006 03:34 PM +
Jordan in Maryland USA
i know exactly how that kid feels, i know what its like to write that same note over and over agien then crumple it up and throw it away
+ December 30, 2006 08:57 PM +
Jess in Delaware
This is sad. If you look at it, it's folded like it was a paper airplane. I wonder why.
+ December 30, 2006 09:24 PM +
Odd Nick in Ca
Dear Mom, I'm sorry you fed me foods that made me fat like fast food instead of cooking healthy stuff like veggies and whole grains. I'm sorry that you bought me video games instead of a bicycle, I'm sorry that portion sizes today are regular or super instead of small and medium. I'm sorry you never realized soda is a treat, not a necessity. I'm sorry that I ate to replace the time and affection you should have given me.
(letters children should write to their parents but don't know any better)
+ December 30, 2006 10:25 PM +
MacG in SE USA
Dear Mom,
I'm sorry I am a presumptuous asshat. I don't know any better.
Love,
Odd Nick
+ December 31, 2006 09:35 AM +
Missy in Leesburg, Georgia
Her mom made her fat.
+ December 31, 2006 08:18 PM +
M in Cinci, OH
Well MacG, Odd Nick does make quite a point.
But I too can relate to the note, even though my mom promotes eating healthy.
+ January 01, 2007 10:02 AM +
Tess in Sactown
Uh...excuse me...moms have issues too. Why do people expect perfection from parents. You grow up and don't like us whatever we do. PUH-LEESE you need material to share with your analyst. Eat this or don't, like I care.
+ January 02, 2007 04:38 PM +
Naomi Campell in Hollywood/Spain/York, New/Wee
I laughed.
+ January 03, 2007 04:14 AM +
Goddess in LA
Very sad
+ January 05, 2007 10:26 PM +
Angie in Austin
The fact that it's folded like a paper airplane and was found left in a classroom, along with the bluntness of the note make me think that this might have been a joke at school-- ya know, the whole "airplane to the back of the head during class" thing.
+ January 08, 2007 04:59 PM +
Celeste in SF Bay Area
Sad. To have such a burden and distorted view of what fat really is. It is the beginning of a disorder that could possibly be fatal. She needs help, quick.
+ January 09, 2007 02:58 AM +
Marie-France in Winnipeg, MB
RE: What grade level was the school?

7-12, but it was a 10th grade french class.
+ January 11, 2007 10:59 AM +
Lane in Vermont
It's interesting, the first comment I read refered to whoever wrote the note as a she, but I immediately thought of a boy for some reason. Don't know why. Either way, it's an incredible find.
+ January 29, 2007 10:14 PM +
Boo in Illinois
That made me sad. I think about making that apology to my mom everyday. I'm also working towards being less fat. :)
+ January 30, 2007 06:37 PM +
kodomo_ja_nai in California
damn.. this is pretty sad. i know exactly how that kid feels. my mom always gets mad at me when i get "fat." that kid's gonna have low self-esteem when he/she grows up unless he/she is strong.
+ February 01, 2007 12:14 AM +
Just a Girl in Washington, U.S.
I know how this kid feels. My dad tells me every day how ugly and fat I look in my clothes. I'm bigger, but not horribly so (I go back and forth between a 16 and an 18) but it still hurts to hear things like that. Parents, think before you talk to your kids, or critisize them. The fault may be theirs or yours, but be gentle with your words. People are fragile and easily broken.
+ February 05, 2007 05:56 PM +
This could have been me in tears
i was told i was fat all my life...
i believed it...
but i look back at pictures...
i was not fat then...
i am now.
+ February 15, 2007 04:49 AM +
me too in tennessee
to this could have been me...

I can so relate. I wasn't back then either, was told I was and now I really am!
+ February 26, 2007 01:11 PM +
ginger in scotland
this is heartbreaking.
tess- i hope to god you don't ahve children.
+ April 09, 2007 06:57 PM +
Jess in IA
I've got to say this is so sad that the girl feels so guilty.
Tess-Parents arnt perfect,but they are the ones that buy the food.
+ April 21, 2007 07:30 PM +
CORUSELAMBRA in illinois
Hah...Wesley Willis...
+ June 02, 2007 12:44 PM +
Eat in g disorder
Dear Mom,
I'm sorry I got thin.
+ November 11, 2007 04:31 PM +
m in bc
Wow this reminds me of one of my best friends from high school. She is a ballet dancer and is 5' tall and 90lbs and she has NO fat on her body its ALL muscle. Her mom is psycho about her weight and what she eats. So this one time at my birthday party we were all having cake and I could tell that she was really uncomfortable and she was just picking at it. So I asked her if she didn't like the cake and she totally broke down and started crying because she knew if she ate some her mom would get mad at her. It broke my heart.
+ January 28, 2008 12:38 AM +
A in in the same boat
Her mother doesn't have to have done anything bad for her to feel this way.

My mum didn't, but I could have written this note.
+ June 02, 2008 12:07 PM +

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